Welcome to our life, our home, and our story! We are Josh and Alicia, and we thank you for taking the time to learn more about us. Although we have never met, we have an immense amount of respect and admiration for you. We truly respect your decision and admire your strength while going through this journey.
Our tale begins fifteen years ago when we met in high school. We started dating when Josh left for college and were together for two years before we decided to take some time apart to pursue college and careers. Five years later, after Alicia had graduated college, we reconnected, knowing that there was something extra special between us. It only took one more year to seal the deal! We were married September of 2012 and haven't looked back since.
We have always wanted to fill our home with a family, but after trying for a year, we found out from our doctors that we would be unable to conceive naturally. Adoption has always been a desire of ours, especially since four of Josh's siblings, are adopted themselves. So for us, choosing this path was an easy decision. We are ecstatic to be on this adoption journey together and can't wait to open our hearts to a precious child!
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
Contact MeIt won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.